No shows

[MaggieLinn2]

I have had 7 no shows this week. I am definitely cutting down my time that I come here. It’s like people don’t want me here. I have been sitting here all day and got one inquiry which happened to be a guy who Nsnc in Aug. He thought I did not remember. He wanted my special too. As soon as I said something about his last appt he said why he did and then of course stopped communicating.

[MaggieLinn2]

Originally Posted by MatureBeauty

I was ghosted several times.
I’m very low volume and if someone requests multiple hours I’m not seeing anyone else that day. Ruins my day, my week and my month .
Multiple hours booked with no show , no call, or the last min
Something came up, but they never reschedule.
Last one was 2 weeks ago, a four hour booking!
All of these were new clients, or wouldn’t been, I never met up with any of them.
Maybe being done deliberately so providers all start asking for deposits
Then they will post as provider and get deposits more easily, and they are possibly scammers?
Idk, maybe I’m just not trusting anyone , but I’m being bombarded with scams since Jan 1st.

Yes! This seems to be the trend! They ask for longer time periods on purpose too to get us interested. I did find that one who kept contacting me is a woman. And one person I traced back to India so you might be right on your theory.

[MaggieLinn2]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

When I here all this about being ghosted by providers , It just makes me think where are you shopping at?

I'm a provider who tours a lot and I have never ghosted one gent in my time of being a provider ( have I gotten NS a few times and after getting a deposit I can get NS )

Have I had to cancle a tour before YES due to what ever and I return all deposits and let you know a few days before or up to a week before.

If you are well Organize Provider there should not be any issues of ghosting someone.. Now somthing can happen last min , as getting sick or kid issues or what ever last min thing can happen. And you should let the gent know right away.

I agree. I have been in this business for years and never ever ghosted on anyone. I have had to cancel tours. But even that is rare. My time is getting very limited as my other job takes over so I certainly don’t like canceling on people. This is a business and should be treated as so it’s just respectful. I certainly let people know what is going on and why.

[outlawsprint]

I've had a couple of ghost incidents in my career. Had to cancel once due to circumstances beyond my control. It can be rough sometimes, but communicating is the key. Everyone's time is in a sense "money" and I get the frustration from both sides. Ghosting is the issue I have the most problem with. I think both parties can understand that life sometimes gets in the way.

Not trying to come across as a know it all, but the hobby has changed over the years. Companions with deposits, hobbieslt not wanting to put out money that might be never seen, should they get ghosted. Sure I might get bashed for this, but COMMUNNICATE!, this can solve a ton on both sides of the situation.

[CatMan4u]

I have never ever ncns in my time of doing this. But I have experienced a lot of heart ache from the provider side of things so I will never ever pay a deposit or do EXSEVIE screening. And with the rates getting sky high and half the time they simply aren't worth it
Yes ladies I know some of you are very honest and provide a great season so if you are one of those. Then this comment isn't directed to you

[MJewel]

If I book you. I would never ghost you. I agree on research. It would be nice if newbies would do their research another problem I see is they’re always asking all sorts of questions and I’m always trying to teach them how to do their own due diligence to make sure a provider has reviews and a real presence. I always get the”Im new” you can be new. But it’s not hard to google a stage name with escort in the search bar and add the phone number. All reviews and ads come up.